Sorry
for leaving you hanging last week, guys.
For right now there is a number limit on these blogs and I had already
crossed it X). But yeah…what was I
talking about? OH YEAH!!!!....my roommate.
Wells,
that horrible thing she did was that she went to our hall’s RA and told her
about me. SHE WENT TO THE FREAKING RA
BEOFRE INSTEAD OF COMING TO ME!!! Even the RA had said at my roommate and I’s
first roommate agreement meeting that if we have issues with each other then we
should go to each other before we come to her.
But noooooooo. What does she do? Complain about me to our friends and
then gets the RA involved……..wonderful.
But
yeah. So I was blindsided by another
roommate meeting that SHE set up and planned for when I got back to the
room. I was annoyed but one of my
friends told me it was going to happen sometime that day so whatever. But when we went in to talk to the RA things
went south. Apparently my roommate doesn’t
feel “comfortable” with Daniel spending the night. She says it’s just weird. Don’t see why when he doesn’t go remotely
near here or any of her things but whatever.
So that part of the roommate agreement was changed to satisfy my
roommate; No one of the opposite sex is allowed to spend the night. Then she said she wasn’t comfortable with Daniel
being in the room while I’m not there.
Let me just tell you, Daniel has given my roommate no reason not to
trust him. He was never mean to
her. He was never near her side of the
room or her stuff. And he was nothing
but nice to her. And so…that part of the
roommate agreement was changed as well; No guests are allowed in the room without
the person who invited them also being in the room. I was so upset that I started crying. I was so MAD that I couldn’t even say
anything. I knew if I had said what was
on my mind right then and there…..things would’ve gone down. OH!!!! Another thing! When our RA asked what
she wanted Daniel to do since he can’t
spend the night and he’s not allowed there when I’m not guess what my Roommate
said…..” Stay at Ferrum (his college).”
She actually said…..she wanted him to stay at Ferrum. That female Dog!.... But with the new
roommate rules and me having to work on the weekends….that’s basically what was
going to happen.
And so…..my
roommate got her way…and we didn’t talk…again…….it’s whatever. When we did start talking a little bit (more
her talking about her stuff and me pretending to be interested) I asked if
Daniel could come over at least twice a month.
She was silent and then she said she wasn’t comfortable with him
here. I argued for it again and then
gave up…..so I asked headmistress roommate if he can come over at least once a
month. Again she was silent….and then she said yes. Thank to lord! (she did specify that it would
be once a month for this semester though…so I think she’s considering different
roommate options…whatever) But yeah, so make it official I had to make a
meeting with the RA again to change to roommate agreement again, telling my
roommate about it (date and time)…and guess what she does this time…….let me
tell you….next week J
Talk to you late
Devi
I love your blogs and honestly find them so interesting. I think that your roommate definitely has a say in whether Daniel can stay over. However, she's definitely being unreasonable. Maybe you need to talk to her about it in a more pleasant way... Good luck with your situation... I hope it all works out!
ReplyDeleteI like reading your blog so much. What I wanna tell you is that if your roommate doesn't agree your boyfriend stay with you, you and your boyfriend can come to my apartment, foxridge. There still one more empty room in my apartment, if you want you can use if for free. Anyway, good luck with you and your roommate :)
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